What are you looking for when it comes to an intimate relationship? Knowing is the only way you have a chance of getting what you want. How would you feel right now if your intimate relationship was everything you wanted? If you could answer this question, then you have a good idea of what you really want. You may have even visualized actual events. This is good, you are on the right track.
Other reasons why knowing what you want is so important:
1. Knowing enables you to appreciate the relationship when you get it.
2. Knowing tells your brain what to focus on.
3. Knowing allows you to be excited and creates anticipation.
…but the most important reason is that it gives you power that no one can take away.
Think about how exciting it will be spending intimate time with your partner; the kind of excitement that makes you daydream, gets you unfocused (in a good way), and builds anticipation to the point where you can’t wait to hold them in your arms. If you had that, everyday challenges would seem minimal to you.
There are times when people get so excited about something that they seem to put the “blinders” on. There isn’t much from the outside world that can distract them. Events that upset them the day before, don’t seem that important today. A great work example is when people are thinking about going on their vacation the next week. It doesn’t matter what happens around them, they are focused on the amazing vacation. They use this in movies a lot and I am sure it has happened to you at least once. So if you have done it once, you can do it again. That is the power of knowing what you want.
So why not use that simple fact of human nature to make your love life something incredible. Get excited about knowing what you want. Get excited about getting what you want.
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